Through the Cracks is both a testimony and a lifeline: a book for anyone who has loved someone dangerous, for those who want to understand, and for the survivors who need to know they aren't alone.
Because freedom isn't found in the fairytale ending--it's found through the cracks.
Through The Cracks
A Survivor’s Story of Escaping Intimate Partner Violence
by Jody Stewart
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"I wrote this book for the person who feels invisible. For the one who thinks they are alone in their suffering. You are seen, you are worthy, and there is a way out."
Meet The Author
Why I Wrote Through The Cracks
Domestic Violence is at an all-time high, and too many people are still suffering in silence because they’re scared, ashamed, or convinced no one will believe them. I was one of them. I stayed quiet for far too long - conditioned to protect the person who was hurting me. I wrote this book because silence is dangerous. Stories save lives. If my voice can help even one person recognize the signs sooner, trust their instincts, or find the courage to reach out for help, then everything I went through becomes something that can protect someone else. No one should feel alone in this. It’s time we start talking about it, openly and loudly.
You Are Not Alone
If you are in immediate danger, always call 9-1-1
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence or coercive control - or if you’re concerned about a loved one - help is available. Support is not limited by gender. These resources are available for women, men, and anyone affected by intimate partner violence
Escalating threats, stalking, or sudden routine changes after separation are serious warning signs - document them and seek help early. If you are planning to leave, reach out for support and build a safety plan first.
Resources
We are here to support Calgary and area individuals, families, and communities to live free from domestic violence and abuse.
FearIsNotLove
Sagesse empowers individuals, organizations and communities to disrupt structures of domestic abuse through curating environments for people to develop skills and lead safe, healthy lives.
Sagesse
National Domestic Violence Hotline
We are here to serve all those impacted by relationship abuse 24/7 confidentially.
The Safe Haven Project is an initiative created by EnactusOC, designed to address the alarming issue of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV).
Safe Haven Project
Did you know …
Phones aren’t private in many abusive homes - sensitive talks should happen in person.
Domestic or Intimate Partner Violence is NEVER the fault of the victim.
Leaving is the most dangerous time. risk spikes when an abuser feels loss of control.
Silence feeds domestic violence - finding your voice ends invisibility and invites change.
Coercive control can be subtle - extreme jealousy is an early sign.
Substance use increases volatility - alcohol + cocaine is a high risk mix.
When something feels unsafe, let police be your first thought. You are allowed to call - even just to ask what options you have.
Clare’s Law is available in Alberta - you can ask police about a partner’s history.
Men experience IPV too - stigma keeps many silent.
Financial coercion = domestic violence. Pressuring a partner for money is abusive.
Crisis lines get busier on stat holidays - routines change and tension rises.
Shelters often exceed capacity - demand in Alberta is higher than beds,